Relationship Tune-Up Tip : Do the Two-Step. Part 2

Create Some Magic!

If you have taken action on “Relationship Tune-Up Tip: Step 1”, you now should now have a clean slate and some room to be able to create some great things.  So here is Step 2: Acknowledgement.  Now that you’ve gotten rid of all that negative chatter in your head, you will be able to start seeing all the things you love about the special people in your life.  Everything from the way they laugh that silly laugh to how wonderfully caring they are.  Start making a list of all the things you appreciate about them.  Then tell them.  Watch the magic!  I have practiced this for years and it really does work!  Giving acknowledgement is like sprinkling water on a drooping flower.  It comes back to life.  Deep down, all of us wants to be loved and appreciated.  And to know that you are by the people that are important to you lights up life.

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  • March 17, 2014 at 7:56 pm

    […] If you are looking to enhance your relationship, there are two things that you can do.  I try to do them regularly because they really work!  Here is Step One.  When I have these upsetting thoughts about my guy, the ones that linger and won’t go away, I know it is time to talk about them.  Keeping them inside only keeps me distant from him.  I will let him know that there are some thoughts that are in my head that I want to let go of and I would like his help.  Here is the BIG thing!  Do not blame him (or her).  What works is saying these are “MY thoughts that are upsetting ME.”  He (or she)  may have no clue about what it is that is bugging you.  Discussing these things, looking at ways to work out the kinks or compromise, makes me feel free and open.  In the end, there is the room to fully express my love.  Here is a message from Dr. Phil about his relationship that sums it up.  “We made a deal early on to handle things as they came up before they got big.  We’ve had a lot of small things — schedules, parenting, kids — but we’ve never let problems build up and then had a big blow-up.” Move on to Step Two. […]

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